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There are a variety of ways to track keystrokes and log instant messaging sessions, but let me offer a word of caution before we go there. If your friend believes that her husband's affections may be wandering, the best tool to address the problem really isn't a computer. Spying on someone you love, with or without the aid of technology, is ugly. Consider that you may learn things that are very painful, or that you may anger the other party when the subterfuge is revealed. A good old-fashioned OFF LINE chat or a counseling session (with or without the spouse) may be the most direct and most effective way to get to the bottom of it all.
That said, most instant messaging programs either have session logging built in, or you can install a third-party plug-in to enable logging. A quick web search will show you where to find that plug-ins. Also, the Google Toolbar will archive and allow you to search email from Gmail, Outlook, Outlook Express, Netscape Mail and Thunderbird; Web pages you have visited; files on your computer, including text, Word, Excel, PowerPoint, image, audio, and video files; and yes chats from AOL, AOL Instant Messenger, and MSN Messenger.
There are also general purpose loggers that can track every keystroke that is sent or received. I won’t provide any links to those, because I've never used them, recommend against them for ethical reasons, and wouldn't trust them on my computer. The problem with all of these logging utilities is that they are detectable, either in the Windows system tray, Task Manager or by anti-virus and anti-spyware software.
So what happens if the suspected infidel finds out that he or she is being spied upon. Chances are it will either shatter whatever trust remains in the relationship, or they'll just find another venue to communicate. The chances of ending up in a win-win situation are very slim.
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